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No, it must be acquired through years of hard work and figuring out just which clues are going to give guys away.

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Even then it's still not infallible whenever European tourists are around. But it's essential. Not only will it help you determine when you're in a safe space with others of your kind, it will also direct you to which clerk to flirt with for a discount and which flight attendant to wink at for a free tiny bottle of vodka. It's everything from Showgirls and Mommie Dearest to John Waters and your aunt Nancy who loves to show up at family events with lipstick on her teeth and do her Charo impersonation.

Yes, before "hipsters" ironically co-opted things that were awful, gay men invented camp and it has pervaded our aesthetic. In some respects it's about loving an outsider and wanting to embrace it even while disparaging the things that make it amazing. Much like the supreme court's definition of pornography, it's hard to define camp but we all know it when we see it.

And if you don't know it, then you're just another sincere mark for all the camp connoisseurs out there.

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Aids nearly wiped out a generation of gay men. Many gay men coming of age now know this intellectually, but they have no clue about the emotional cost of losing all of their friends slowly but surely to a disease or being forced to live with the diagnosis as a death sentence. While the quilt is now a shrine to everyone who has died of the disease, and not just gay men, it is the closest thing we have to a museum and the best way to document all the lives that have past.

We owe it to them not to be forgotten. In our age of Gay Straight Alliances in schools and celebrities who live in a perpetual glass closet without ever making a final announcement, coming out seems it's going out of style. We all have a coming out story, whether it was when your mom says she knew already, your father stopped talking to you, or your boss just didn't care and told you to go back to your desk.

No matter what else you may or may not have in common with another gay person, you can always fall back on this. It's like talking about the weather, but far more interesting, and often with more tears.

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Here are my suggestions: Have a diva Everyone needs a Kylie, even if you think Time Bomb is kind of a crappy song. Dress in drag Even if it's just once for Halloween, go out in the world wearing the clothing of the opposite gender. Cruise Everyone used to know to glance over your shoulder after three steps if you were interested in that sexy stranger on the sidewalk. Know about poppers If only so people will get your jokes about Rush and Jungle Juice, know what poppers are. Oddly, Bermuda has taken a step backwards and stopped recognising gay marriage; but your Danish marriage can still be registered there as a civil partnership, giving most of the same rights.

And countries which recognise civil partnerships but not LGBT marriage allow you to register your Danish marriage as a partnership. But there are a number of countries where it is not only not recognised but actually punishable, so we try and make sure our couples know of any risks, and then try and be discrete if that helps in their particular situation.

We have helped many LGBT couples marry even though they knew the wedding would not be recognised at home — they wanted to do it anyway because it was important to them personally, whatever the legal situation.

In general, as you would hope, those countries which have recognised same-sex marriages have been helpful with registering the marriage. One of our couples comments: I can only confirm that with us it worked quite well: The only problem was here in Korea, but we knew that was to be expected. You cannot have a civil partnership in Denmark — but a Danish marriage can be registered in some countries as a civil partnership, if they do not recognise LGBT marriage.

The exception is where a couple, or one of the couple, has previously been in a civil-partnership — see below. Oddly, even if the couple has been in a civil partnership with each other, the partnership has to be dissolved before they can then get married.

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