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Pikelet said: Just guessing here, but from a pure numbers perspective there is simply less dating candidates for gay people. CSJ said: Speaking from my experience only of course, I've been hit on by more men than women and I'm a hetero man. By that I mean no women has ever come up to me but around a dozen men have.

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Necromanti Member Mar 10, Sep 27, 9, 0 0 Seattle, WA. Jul 19, 6, 0 You're going to be swimming in dick when you move to Chicago. Mar 10, Dec 21, 26, 0 1, Try being non-white and gay.

Dating is even harder. P Banned Mar 10, Jan 9, 20, 0 0 28 Italy. SecretMoblin Member Mar 10, It's especially difficult if you aren't really into the gay bar scene and don't frequent the hook-up apps. Weirdly enough the most success I've had is at the gym in the middle of the night; dudes seem much more brave when their gaydar starts pinging and you're the only other person there.

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Finding someone who wants to just kinda hang out, go to concerts, try new foods, go camping etc. Most people I encounter are super into getting blasted 4 nights a week or they're really business-minded and want to settle down and adopt. Having exclusively straight friends helps, though, at least for me. There's a lot less social pressure to have a partner. Xe4 Banned Mar 10, Aug 1, 9, 1 0. Dating sucks: Best of luck, OP. Jun 23, 7, 0 0. Spoiler I've been single for a while now, not sure If I could find someone loyal, cuz it seems in my circle everyone is cheating with everyone.

Nov 21, 15, 0 1, Germany. Dear Spiritreaver, I think the problem is a mix of everything you said A problem of mine is that the older I get, the more mistakes I do and the more I learn. As I learn more, I am even pickier because I can easily detect red flags before any feelings are awaken in me so I have barely felt anything for anyone in the last 3 years, after breaking up with my ex. I'm new be nice Member Mar 10, Nov 28, 2, My longest term relationship was with a guy who after 34 years decided to try the gay thing with me.

Lasted 3 years. All the professional gays I've dated were just as you described, otherwise. Try the bisexuals? Frodo Member Mar 10, Nov 6, 10, 0 0. Read this, OP. Neo Member Mar 10, Aug 12, 0 0. Look for someone a little older. Guys in their 30s are more willing to settle down than guys in their 20s, since they're more likely to have sown their wild oats already. And they don't necessarily feel they have something to prove, so they tend to be pretty stable.

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Prime crotch Banned Mar 10, Nov 8, 14, 0 0 Portugal. People in general are worst about relationships because nowadays who even needs to think about commit?! I also am not seriously considering settling, just for disclosure, so as not to seem like i'm disparaging everyone else. SomedayTheFire Member Mar 10, Jun 5, 12, 0 0. It's all about that polyamorous lifestyle. Amalthea Banned Mar 10, Mar 6, 7, 0 0 Switzerland.

As a straight transwoman I'd be happy if the whole danger of being assaulted or murdered by a possible date once you tell them would fall away. Dany Banned Mar 10, Nov 28, 25, 0 0 Chicago dannym I dunno, i'd feel like your complaints are fairly unanimous to everyone dating. It is probably easier to get dates and sex because of the resources we have. I guess one thing I find really helpful is placing your foot out, socially in apps, online or out in a bar.

And to be honest with yourself of expectations and being sure that's relayed. I know i want x and y. Pai Pai Master Banned Mar 10, Aug 27, 32, 0 0. Having dated both guys and girls, this is not strictly a gay thing. Many people have trouble figuring out what they want before they put themselves out there. Sorry you're not having any luck though keep at it! Guys in their 30s are more willing to settle down than guys in their 20s.

Spoiler I am 37, gay and single Delio Member Mar 10, Nov 27, 16, 0 I'm Gay, 28 and single and yeah im really ready to just settle down. I'm not really one for the big gay bar scene and apps ive tried but dont work for me so my options are stupidly limited. So I feel your pain. Aug 10, 5, 30 Clydefrog said: Saintguine Member Mar 10, Mar 18, 1, 0 He's a great guy but still a little hard to read.

I'm trying to figure out if it's okay or too soon to invite him over to spend the night this weekend. The last thing I want to do is scare him off. It's cute.

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But real life doesn't work according to timelines. I slept with my bf on the first date. Don't try to pattern your dating on the straight model. As I see from my straight friends, they date and when the woman feels ready, there might be sex. Sex is the easiest thing in the gay world. For every type, there is someone who wants it.

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That and more is out there. Take an honest asset of what you are and what you like. What type are you? Do you look older or younger than you are? What do you want?

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Sexual habits? You get the drift.

Then advertise it. You have to market yourself and manage expectations. If you are 40 and look 50, don't put pictures of yourself up from when you were Your dates will be dissappointed and will feel lied to. When it comes to email communications betwen gay men maybe all communications, but I can't speak to those that are not betwen two men men lose interest quickly. A long string of emails will naturally trail off.

Men tend to be sexually motivated and investing weeks in seeming never ending emails, well, it seems pointless. Schedule an in person meeting as soon as possible.