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If this is sex between two gay men, with dicks, then you get the continual high-octane pressure of knowing one of them may be inferior.

Feel the adrenaline rush as you worry your own member is playing catch-up with the boner masterclass happening a mere inch or two down the road. This is why gay men are strong. They not only survive this torture but seek it out, like sadists. Your G-spot is up your bottom.

Sure, straight people are more adventurous than we give them credit for, but will you pluck up the courage to ask your dear Alison or Samantha to put her fingers up there? She might. It will be like someone forgetting to bring a puppet on their first day working on the Muppet Show. In gay sex, however, a finger in the cookie jar is a mere hors d'oeuvre — nobody's really going to care if you decide to put the entire dining table up there as long as you don't wake the neighbours. Two men, two women, ten men, women, whatever. How many potentially excellent shags has the prospect of parenthood ruined for the average straight guy?

You may think it all happens from behind and is as intimate as having your house valued by an estate agent, but gay sex has lots of positions for you to try — and not all require athleticism or agility. We could teach straight men a thing or two about anal. Some never realised you could do it face-to-face until they stumbled upon gay porn , I heard. Try breath mints.

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Basically, it's brilliant. By Jim Chapman. There's so much to learn. By Justin Myers, The Guyliner. By Charlie Burton. Tim Farron: Politics Tim Farron: Charlie Burton 01 Apr Justin Myers, The Guyliner 27 Apr Queer sex is and always will be a middle finger to the hetero establishment, a threat to the dominant paradigm, and — for this queer man, at least — the most beautiful part of my life.

My queer identity is tied immovably to the most intimate parts of my life; the men I fuck, the men I kiss and grind in public, my positive HIV status, my sex parties, my slutty nights.

From open relationships to kink and BDSM and all manner of uninhibited, no-moral-bullshit sexual play in between, being queer means having a world of sexual exploration at your fingertips. That exploration often takes place at sex parties and orgies, and summertime means that group fuck fests, orgies, and circuit parties with winding sex mazes will be hopping. Here are 15 tips to get you started, with a bunch to follow in part two of this guide.

The buddy system works at sex parties, too. Friends make orgies better. Tall socks the fetish wear brand Nasty Pig sells a good collection make for a perfect place to stash your ID, credit card, cash, lube, and other essentials when you shed the rest of your clothes. This rule of thumb really only applies to official venues — circuit parties, sex clubs, and so on — where you may be naked but keep your shoes and socks on.

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Location makes a huge difference. Public venues warehouses, sex clubs, bathhouses, et al. Sex parties in private residences are, well, private, and usually smaller, so the expectations of attendees are different.

Parties like these can be more personal than those at a public venue, but that comes with its own benefits and drawbacks, too. On the other hand, there are virtually no expectations of attendees in public spaces or sex clubs. You can do what you want. You can watch, participate, play in a group, or tuck away to a semi-private space if such spaces are available for more one-on-one action.

That said, some private sex parties are massive, because some private residences are massive, with hundreds of attendees. Many sex parties require a specific dress code — jockstrap or nude only, for example. Others are gear-focused and require you to wear certain attire. Many are male-only, but some are mixed. Some parties ask you to hide your features with a hood or mask. Some may feature drug use; others are exclusively sober. Some parties are condom-friendly; others are bareback-only. Poppers are widely, recreationally used at gay sex parties and anywhere gay men are gathered. If you go to a bareback sex party and pull out condoms, you might be asked to leave.

If the party is condom-only and you show up ready to play bare, you may also be asked to leave. Some venues are required by state law to provide condoms and make them visible to visitors. You can decide how seriously you want to treat these signs, but in either case, show up prepared. I clean once, wait up to an hour sometimes , and clean again.

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