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Could a guy just be so uninterested in sex or relationship? Hi ONG, Do you find 3 dates in four years satisfying? If you are looking for true love, a virtual relationship will never do it. To kiss and hug and dance and enjoy a meal? This guy is not available. But he will never come around to date you on a regular basis — not after four years.

Definitely stop chatting with him online. I know this guy online and have been texting daily for almost 4 years. We met only three times and have not met then. We are both in the 40 and he is typically a very shy and quiet guy never have a girlfriend before. I had suspended him for few months a few times already and he tend to text me on my birthday and on special occassions. Thank u soooo much Ronnie!

It really hurts because i was completely honest and trusting with him! I think ill take your advice! I know this is hard but stop communicating with him and move on to meet new men. You might want to read my bestselling book Is He the One? I had not dated in years so I said what the hell. We hung out twice in one day and it was great. He texted me good morning, say that he misses me all that.

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We hung out again at my house. We ended up hooking up and right after he left. Since that day the texts have slowed to almost nothing and he has blown off plans 3 times. I have not seen him in 3 weeks! He never calls only text. What should I do? I thought dating someone means you spend time with them!? Hi Melissa, I agree this is suspicious that he can text and talk but not make plans. A man friended me on Facebook and asked me out on a date rather quickly.

We went out and had a great time and he asked the next time he could see me. We saw each other 3 more times. I did make the mistake of having sex with him. Then his job assigned him a huge project that will take him 2 weeks. Should drop him now or wait it out for two weeks and see if he then asks me out on a proper date? I run a business and so I understand how it is to become buried in a project.

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Should I tell him to call me when he has time after the project is over? He is responsive and you see each other regularly, so it might be a time to define the relationship or at least ask some questions. You could ask him in a nice, non-threatening way why he never initiates getting together. That might open up an interesting conversation.

Or you could ask if he sees a future with you. You might discover he is very interested and sees this going the distance. Keep it light and try to to get aggressive or demanding for the best outcome. There is this guy who I had bumped into here and there for the last three years. He never reached out to ask for my number and I know he was single. He found me on Facebook and began texting me just to say hi.

This lasted for months. For the past 6 months, he has been there for me whether I needed someone to move furniture refusing to take pay or to help fix something. One day he texted me, and I was really down about something. He dropped everything to come, very insistent that HE pay.

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Here and there when he texts me, I will suggest meeting. We are both tremendously busy but have seen each other about once a week for a couple months, and even got physical. He always drops everything to come. We always have a great time, and nothing seems uncomfortable, but should I stop being the one to suggest a get together? When you do that, you get men like this guy. Hi Ronnie Can you please help me.

Met him a few weeks ago, i found him on fb and invited him to my house. He is extremely shy. He says morning and good night 1 week later.

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If i invite him he jumps at it. Is he not interested or is the shyness just a real problem? Hi Catherine. Let me get right to the point. If a man is genuinely interested, he wants to meet you now not later or someday. Break the cycle by stopping the texting. You want love? There are good men out there who want to meet and spend time with you — look for one of them.

I met a man online who started texting me several months ago and he still hasnt asked me out. Im hoping that he will pop the question soon and a couple of days ago he asked if I was up for some fun that evening. Someone told me to test how interested he is by suggesting that we could meet but I dont think I would be comfortable doing that if he really has no intentions building a potential relationship. He has texted me again today and I know if I dont respond he will text me again soon.

I must break the cycle.