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Yes, it could have been.

It could have also been a sting weed was not legal here yet and I had a significant amount on me , it could have been malicious intentions rape, kidnapping. It could have been any of those things, but I wasn't sticking around to find out. I think it would have been way to obvious if that was the case. I'm guessing he wanted to invite you to a threesome, which would explain the hands as someone behind him getting leverage? Still, that's weird and unsettling enough that no one in their right mind would risk it. Good call on getting right the fuck out of there.

Also if I were to invite someone to a threesome I would invite them to a threesome. Not spring it on them last second. Lol did you ever think maybe he was just getting fucked by another guy right at that moment and wanted you to walk in on it? Guy came over. Things started to heat up and then he went flaccid, froze and covered his face with his hands beginning to hyperventilate. I kind of chuckled thinking he was joking but when he pulled his hands away, the look on his face was one of complete and utter hurt.

I felt bad and ceased all pursuits of hooking up. I tried to talk to him and dive a little deeper about his thought process but he collected himself a bit, put his clothes back on and raced out of my apartment apologizing profusely but repeatedly just said god knew what was happening. I felt really bad for the guy because I grew up with that same inner turmoil. Lost my drive for the rest of the night. I also was chatting with a clearly gay guy who once out of the blue said he found Jesus and wasn't actually gay and then disappeared.

Honestly, there's a market for that, and that dude ripped you off big time. You could've gotten way more for those flip flops. Someone said Hi, I was working so I didn't respond for a few hours. They sent a second message 20 or so minutes later. Something along the lines of "Fuck you. I would have treated you so well. You are never going to meet someone as nice as me. You are missing out". He asked me to fuck him hard and call him homophobic slurs while I did so.

I was younger and thought that it was weird but I went for it and called him every homophobic slur under the sun. I wasn't into it, but you could tell that he was so I went with it and finished.

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That's not the horrifying part of it though. A few weeks later I saw him at my church with his wife and he looked like he had seen a ghost. I pretended not to notice him and went on my way. I still feel horrible for his wife. That's when you start the blender. Just string them together and hope the heat of the moment stops any questions from being asked. Or that you come up with one so hilarious that you have to stop and laugh at it for a bit. Recently, I had a guy ask me for dick pics.

I told him I would only send him some if he sent me a face pic at least, since his profile was just a picture of a motorcycle. He proceeded to get pissed, began insulting me, and demanded I block him. Now, I'll admit, I was petty and refused, stating that he could suffer through seeing my smiling face for a day. Cue him switching to threatening to fight me.

And him revealing that he knew my name and the street I live on.

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Through out the course of the threats, he revealed that he somehow knew me from a gay club almost a decade ago. It stopped eventually because I reported him to Grindr. But still. No idea who he is, and all this because I asked for a face. They demanded you block them instead of just blocking you themselves??? Maybe I just don't understand how the app works; would that have somehow been a benefit? Holy shit! Do all dating apps do this? I thought EA was scum but this is the worst micro-transaction I've ever heard of. Bi male here. After talking with an apparent trans woman for a while we decided to meet up.

It was a fat hairy guy. They claimed their picture was who they aspire to be, which was weird because it wasn't a good pic. Straight up cat fish. They got a little heated when I wanted to bail immediately, so I bailed anyways. I can understand not being far in your transition or wanting to do go slow, but not even shaving? What the hell. Yeah, you know, that's a conversation that should happen. I understand identity issues and putting up the picture of who you feel you really are.

But the conversation of "hey I'm not there yet" needs to happen before you meet up, in my opinion. I'm driving back to school in Upstate NY, which is a legitimately terrifying and depressing place, especially at night in the winter. I'm horny enough to open Grindr and see if there's anyone I want to meet up with.

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This guy messages me asking for a blowjob, which I say yes to. When I get to his house, it's 9pm and he's sitting on his porch smoking a cigarette, looking like he's about to run me off his lawn with a shotgun. He doesn't look as good as his picture, but I'm not picky. He bounds down the steps and motions for me to follow him around the side of the house. He opens a door leading to the basement and starts to walk down the steps into the darkness. I asked him why we were going into the basement and not inside the house. That's when he tells me his wife is inside with their kids and we have to do it in the basement.

I tell him no and turn around to walk back to my car when he grabs my arm and starts to pull me through the basement door. I panic and start kicking and flailing, trying to get away. He's about to yank me down the steps when I kick my foot back into his shin, catching him off guard. He lets go long enough for me to break free and start running.

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I ran so fast back to my car I probably qualified for olympic track and field. I sped away and made a vow to never meet up with someone from Grindr in Upstate New York. There's something in the water up there, man. I'm telling you. Seeing a lot of people thinking that I'm classifying all of Upstate NY as creepy. Obviously not.

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But I think we can all agree there are vast stretches of the state that are depressing and down-at-the-heel. Also, shut up, you NY geography snobs! The only thing more annoying than the people who miss-classify Upstate NY are the people who get mad about it! Get over it! Went to a guy's house. He had no power, hadn't showered, and there was an extension cord running from the neighbors house across the snow to feed an alarm clock and radio.

Times are hard but daymn..

I noped out of there. This one isn't really sexual, but I recently started dating a guy that has been more than what I was expecting, so I was using grindr just to chat with a few people that has been friendly. Enter this nurse who I had expressed interest in a while ago but rejected me. Suddenly now he wants to hook up, and I say I'm sorry, but I'm not looking for hookups I just want to chat with a few friends I've made on here.